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Did you know that the average wedding requires over than 250 hours of planning? Honestly.
Every bride, groom, mother-of-the-bride, as well as anyone involved in the planning should know that it can turn into a full job all in itself. With so many of the details to plan out, and then provide follow up on, it can in fact become overwhelming, thus ultimately stressful. What’s key is to find your balance…..even at the beginning.
For instance, there are some things that require your immediate attention such as selecting a date, setting a budget, finding your ceremony and reception venues, and choosing your bridal party. These are essential to having your plans move forward and in the right direction. Then there are details that are just as important but not necessarily required in the initial stages. Such as invitation planning, food and music selection, and/or honeymoon arrangements. You may find it hard to believe but even choosing your color palette may not be a pressing as you think.
In planning for your ceremony and reception you should set 3 goal tracks which should span over a period of:
Short term: 3 months
Intermediate: 3-6 months
Long term: 6-12 months
Short term goals are realistic and should have achievable target dates of 3 months or less. These goals are the basics and are what set your foundation. For example, deciding on your budget, when and where to get married. These goals lead into your intermediate goal planning.
Intermediate goals are measurable by what you have achieved in the initial stages of planning and in meeting your short term goals. These goals demand attention and have target date anywhere from the 3 to 6 months. For instance: Who will marry you should you decide to get married outside of a church? Moreover, what about the colors of your wedding palette? The color you have chosen may not be flattering for everyone within your bridal party. This is the time to reevaluate your choice and come up with a solution that everyone can be happy with. You won’t necessarily have to give up your colors; you’ll just have to make some minor modifications.
Long term goals are determined and achievable based on the prerequisite that your short term and intermediate goals have been met. These goals are what bind all of your plans together in the final stages. Their target date is anywhere between 6 to 12 months. Long term goals could be anything from choosing your wedding invitations, favors, hairstyle and makeup, and settling balances with your wedding vendors.
It’s imperative that before you dive head first into planning, that you take a moment and think about exactly what it is that you desire for your wedding day. Don’t take on too much too soon, or bite off more than you can chew, and can’t swallow. The next step will be to develop goals that will assist you in getting what you want for your big day, keep you on track, and ultimately alleviate any additional stress that may come your way. However this comes with the territory of planning a wedding. Thus, if you require the assistance of a professional planner, seek it. Don’t be afraid to ask for help when and where you need it. Trust yourself and know your limitations. It’s an incredible feeling to have peace of mind and knowing that you are headed in the right direction with your plans and goals for your dream wedding.
Best wishes to you for this holiday season.
Happy Planning!
Every bride, groom, mother-of-the-bride, as well as anyone involved in the planning should know that it can turn into a full job all in itself. With so many of the details to plan out, and then provide follow up on, it can in fact become overwhelming, thus ultimately stressful. What’s key is to find your balance…..even at the beginning.
For instance, there are some things that require your immediate attention such as selecting a date, setting a budget, finding your ceremony and reception venues, and choosing your bridal party. These are essential to having your plans move forward and in the right direction. Then there are details that are just as important but not necessarily required in the initial stages. Such as invitation planning, food and music selection, and/or honeymoon arrangements. You may find it hard to believe but even choosing your color palette may not be a pressing as you think.
In planning for your ceremony and reception you should set 3 goal tracks which should span over a period of:
Short term: 3 months
Intermediate: 3-6 months
Long term: 6-12 months
Short term goals are realistic and should have achievable target dates of 3 months or less. These goals are the basics and are what set your foundation. For example, deciding on your budget, when and where to get married. These goals lead into your intermediate goal planning.
Intermediate goals are measurable by what you have achieved in the initial stages of planning and in meeting your short term goals. These goals demand attention and have target date anywhere from the 3 to 6 months. For instance: Who will marry you should you decide to get married outside of a church? Moreover, what about the colors of your wedding palette? The color you have chosen may not be flattering for everyone within your bridal party. This is the time to reevaluate your choice and come up with a solution that everyone can be happy with. You won’t necessarily have to give up your colors; you’ll just have to make some minor modifications.
Long term goals are determined and achievable based on the prerequisite that your short term and intermediate goals have been met. These goals are what bind all of your plans together in the final stages. Their target date is anywhere between 6 to 12 months. Long term goals could be anything from choosing your wedding invitations, favors, hairstyle and makeup, and settling balances with your wedding vendors.
It’s imperative that before you dive head first into planning, that you take a moment and think about exactly what it is that you desire for your wedding day. Don’t take on too much too soon, or bite off more than you can chew, and can’t swallow. The next step will be to develop goals that will assist you in getting what you want for your big day, keep you on track, and ultimately alleviate any additional stress that may come your way. However this comes with the territory of planning a wedding. Thus, if you require the assistance of a professional planner, seek it. Don’t be afraid to ask for help when and where you need it. Trust yourself and know your limitations. It’s an incredible feeling to have peace of mind and knowing that you are headed in the right direction with your plans and goals for your dream wedding.
Best wishes to you for this holiday season.
Happy Planning!
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