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When the idea came about to create this blog, I wanted to create a forum that provided inspiration, tips and information to make one's planning journey an experience of enjoyment, excitement and especially one of ease. I am dedicated and passionate about details and all things celebrated and making one's Dreams for their special day come true. This is my commitment to you...

Take my hand and this journey with me as I share with you my thoughts, my dreams, and my many experiences in business as a wedding consultant & event planner and some personal. In the interim, together may we discover the many splendid things of planning the Perfect Party, all the while, "Having your mind end up where your heart has always been!

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Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Destination Weddings & Honeymoons



Do you dream of a wedding in a Tropical Paradise?

Do you long to feel Blue Waters and White Sand beneath your feet

as you begin the first day of the rest of your life

with the man of your dreams?


We are thrilled to announce this new initiative occurring within our company. For some time the desire has been placed on my heart to offer Destination as well as other services that LMEP clients could benefit from. As a member of the Association of Bridal Consultants we will be able to bring more options to our clients looking to plan weddings abroad. Stay tuned for more details on the Memoirs blog as well as our website.


We look forward to sharing this vital information with you as you begin your plans for your Destination Wedding & Honeymoon!


Happy Planning!

Monday, August 17, 2009

Monday Memoirs


My Dear Beloved,


I hope the summer days has been good to you and that you are having the time of your life planning your wedding. It's seems that there is so much to do in the little time that we have to accomplish our normal daily tasks on a day-to-day basis'. However, when you add planning a wedding in addition to work, school, and/or taking care of a family it's seems that one would no doubt have their work cut out for them. In instances like these, it would be best to get a head start by organizing your plans and keep them accessible and adaptable. For example, I would like to encourage you if you have not done so already, to get yourself a binder, preferably a 3-ring and one that matches your color palette. Here's what you'll need as well:

1. Up to 10 Sectional or more (these can be color coded or labeled), one for each category. For example: (Budget Guidelines, Time lines, Bridal Attire, Ceremony Venue, Floral Designer, Photographer, Band, etc).

2. Pocket Inserts - to hold your invitation set, ribbons and any other knickknacks.

3. Card Holders - to collect info on all your vendors

4. Notebook Paper - to go in each section. This would be ideal to document all ideas and minutes from meetings, and conference calls. It will also be a good place to document your next follow up.

5. Weekly To-DO-LIST - this is ideal for keeping you on track with the things you need to do. Places to visit in person or on the world wide web.

6. Photo holders - To collect images for ideas for your day. Also a great record keeper for your finds and vendor visits.
Plus More...

And lastly, create an Inspiration Board. Collect your hues, centerpiece ideas, floral choices, and much more. In creating your inspiration board, you begin the Blueprint or Dream map for your special day. How do I do this you may ask? Well, you know those bridal magazines that you peruse to get your inspirations? Now you have a reason to rip those pages right on out and with incident.

I created this Fall Inspiration Board:

Images from The Wedding Channel and The Knot



So with better time management and wedding planning tools in hand, you're off to a terrific start in planning your wedding. If you don't have the time to actually pull together a binder for yourself you can find great ones sold by Mindy Weiss and Martha Stewart.

Happy Planning!

Thursday, August 13, 2009

Toon Daze..

LMEP In A Comic Feature! Say Word?

I recently was asked by one of my colleagues in the industry, Marcinho Savant of SavvyPlanners.com,LLC about the type of questions that I often receive from clients inquiring of my services. One that I could recall sticking out in particular made it to the "Big Strip" of The-Fairy-Wedding-Father.

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Hilarious! I am so diggin' on my outfit and haircut. Dave's the BEST.

You remember Marcinho pronounced [mar-SING-you] don't you? He is one of our featured planners on Memoirs. Read his story here. Also check out the series of the strip here. It'll have you in stitches!

So what did you think of my debut as a toon? Is there a future in it for me?

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Should You Wear White On Your Wedding Day?


As tradition would have it, then the answer would be yes.

However more and more Brides are traveling the route of non-tradition. For example, Kelis wore a green gown for her wedding ceremony with Nas and in the Eastern region of the world their colors are more on the vivid and bold side. The color of one's wedding attire can attribute to their culture or their overall preference.



In truth, Brides did not always wear white. In my research I came across this interesting article from The New York Times dated back to 1896. Have a look-see.



So where did the "Wearing of White" come from? It actually come from the era of Queen Victoria(1840). Here's an article that I received from the The American Academy of Wedding Professionals explaining such:

AAWP's Weekly Words of Wedding Wisdom™

Why "Do" Brides Wear White????

Copyright 2009 Deborah McCoy, all rights reserved.


We have a fun question for you this week. Why do brides wear white? We know that white symbolizes purity and virginity-but what's the real reason? The answer dates back to 1840 when Victoria, Queen of England, married her Prince Charming, Albert, in a wedding that set protocol on its ear.


The young Queen was only 20 when SHE proposed marriage to Albert. According to the Royal Marriages Act of 1772, all royal marriages were to be sanctioned by the sovereign but in Victoria's case, she was the sovereign and this independent young woman was not about to ask any one's permission to marry-a royal first.


The young queen married publicly, in the afternoon, and set another royal precedent. Since royal weddings were considered too sacred for the public's eyes, they were always held very late at night or early in the morning. And to top it off, she wore a wedding dress with a plunging, SEXY neckline-a dress that would change the course of history. Victoria, instead of wearing silver, the traditional choice for royalty, wore WHITE. It was a first, and the beginning of a tradition that has passed down to us throughout the ages.


But how did the color become synonymous with purity and virginity? In the sixteenth century, another English queen, Elizabeth I, popularized the color white; she LOVED IT and wore it often! Because the queen was celebrated for her chasteness (she became known as the Virgin Queen), her favorite color came to symbolize purity and virginity-and that tradition passed down to us throughout the centuries also.


Today white symbolizes joy and celebration and remains the traditional color for wedding gowns. But there's no reason not to wear any color that you choose.



Shades of ivory, blush or even pale blues and greens are great alternatives. In addition, non-white dresses are common for second marriages. So in finality it's your preference...will you wear white or it's alternative?

Happy Planning!

Monday, August 10, 2009

Monogram Mondays


For Letisha & Mark's May 2009 Wedding, we teamed up with I Do Originals for her aisle runner. I remember one Sunday morning opening my email to this beauty:


Not only did Kristin and her team meet Letisha's expectations, they surpassed them and then some. Which evolved into this:







With the realization and regret that she did not get the coordinating unity set candles we put our minds together along with the creativity of Kristin's design and came up with this:






So when going for your wedding signature consider using a monogram which can be used throughout the scope of your wedding. I highly recommend Kristin and I Do Originals. You can find great products to showcase your monogram. Visit the I DO Blog and their new company initiative, I Do Paper, to get the skinny on all their gorgeous creations. You won't be disappointed. And tell Kristin I sent you.



Happy Planning!